Don’t let anyone make you feel ashamed of yourself. It’s a ridiculous thing that as evolved as we are – physically at least – mentally we still derive pleasure from belittling each other for the smallest of ‘differences’. You are who you are.
If you’re judgmental, ask yourself: “What does judging others bring to my life?” Does it bring anything worthwhile? Does it hurt that person? Do you like the feeling of superiority? Or do you simply not know how NOT to be judgemental? It’s so ingrained in us that it can be hard to change the habit.
But it’s not impossible. We see things are WE are and not AS they are.
Be happy. Be you.